Balik Kampung!!! balik hari je...

March 19th,

Objectives - jumpa mak pak, tengok apa rupa rumah tu, gi kenduri rakan-rakan, and mengeratkan silaturrahim dgn masyarakat kampung (i.e me'dang sambil tgk game Spurs vs West Ham & Man United vs Bolton).

Kalau ikutkan ati nak je rempit balik, tp memandangkan cuaca yg jealous makanya menumpang je la gamaknya, cam x biasa jer, haha sungguh terasa. Memang tu la jadinya. Motor, kereta, Komuter (KL Central), Star LRT (Setiawangsa), lastly kereta. Jauh gak travel nyer tp menapak cikit je, camner nak capai 1000 steps a day camni. Bukanlah nak kurus just wanna stay healthy by being active.

As predicted, hujan turun merahmati bumi di Sabtu hari meliatkan makhlukNya tuk meninggalkan selimut and katil memasing. Feel sorry tuk mereka yg kahwin/bersanding hari ni. Kenduri kat Bagan Tengkorak pun still hujan lagi, redah je la even squadmates belum gerak dari Klang lagi. Tak boleh lama sebab menumpang transport orang lain...

Kalau hujan lebat gini sah petang ni dak-dak kampung tak main futsal, sumer malas nak kasi clear court. Udahnya nyembang bertiga ngan cousin sorang & member kampung. Xder hasil nampaknya. Lagipun bukan bawak kasut pun, travel light je balik ni. Sepak bola tak dapat, tengok game bola pun jadi la, tengok performance team yg bakal di'ayam' Real Madrid hahaha. Man United lak bakal berentap ngan The Blues cuma mlm ni ngan Bolton je. Punya la mengharap MU kalah pas Evans kena red card, tu pun payah nooo. Sengal nyer Bolton.

Esoknyer planning need to be good, already got plan A, plan B and a bit of plan C.

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If U fail to plan, U planning to fail, ayat biasa dengar but doesn't make it less true though. More phrases - we could only afford the planning, ketentuan hanya ditangan Nya. Perancangan, strategy, gameplay whatever U call it, needed to get what U aimed for. Sometimes one plan was not enough especially when we're dealing with another human being, they've got flaw/s U know. Thats why U gotta have the next plans so we can work around those flaws (them and ours cause we're human too). Itupun if the objective was so important to U.

Thats the necessity. But to eased Ur mind working the plan, it doesn't hurt to make micro planning. It would sometimes shortened the ETA (estimated time of accomplishment), smooth things trough and avoid people snapping at each other for fear the plans failing.

An example - trip balik kampung fom JB to Sabak Bernam, more specifically my home at Parit Baru. I would need 2 trip by bus just to get to Sabak, thats the plan without involving others. Even if I got the Sabak - KL's ticket early on, I couldn't guarantee the JB-KL's eta. Worse case scenario of buses unreliable services I've experienced myself, it was Hari Raya's eve. The ticket for 1830 but hopped in at 2030, it was an old extra bus. Got delayed some more on the highway, bus broke down. Reached Pudu nearly Subuh. Almost ten hours. I think maybe it just happen on festive seasons.

For KL - Sabak, got three option. The bus if  U're lucky enough, or friends with weekend homesick, or the best option - my brothers and sisters, straight to home. When planning with people, make sure they aware of Ur plan so U wouldn't be left stranded somewhere. And take care of their feelings, keep reminding Urself that U just 'menumpang'! Sedar diri sikit. Thats my plan A, B and C. Truth is, mostly it went with C, but honestly I prefer A (less dependent to others and less people keeping tabs for favors).

I know its good and nice to have friends with benefits but don't push it. Instead of having friends, U're making an enemy out of Ur closed friend . . .

A bit of a quiz - I'm a guy and U're a girl. Is it not possible for us to be best friends? just that...

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March 20th, 

Minggu ni memang tak dapat nak stay kampung tolong kemas rumah, gi kebun ka tolong apa-apa yang patut. Even when I got no concrete reason not to. 

Hari ni dua majlis to attend to, Batu 38 and another at Bukit Jelutong. The one at Shah Alam ni classmate time primary school, last time I've met her raya lepas, only that once after our UPSR. Thanks to Wawa, I've got to ride along once more before gettin her title 'Puan' beberapa bulan lagi.

Talking about settling down, bapak aku pesan "nek sembahyangmu sek eneng seng ketinggalan, rausah angan-angan arek kawen". That means diri ni still perlu diperbaiki before even dreaming of getting married.

Back to Ekin&Mal event, also raining. Good thing it was held in Bukit Jelutong Public Hall. All four of us (Pana and Suraya) got a round table at the back for us gonna be long in there, thinking of a photoshoot with the bride later on. Each of us got the chance to show our faces to the bride, Wawa during reception, mine bila diorang bersanding kat pentas, Pana time makan beradab, Sue je segan masa potong 'cake'.

Rasa berbesar hati plak bila time amek gambar bersanding tu, Sikin senyum melebar lebih sikit bila nampak classmate lama dia compared to when the hired photographer asked her to. Really sweet wei!!! With her facial structure, I'd say susah tuk orang yang tak berapa kenal dia tuk nampak kemanisan senyum dia tu (don't get me wrong here, this is a compliment from an old friend).

Ekin&Mal

Bila group photoshoot, aku plak spoil wat muka tak berapa photogenic. Sian hired photographer tu. Habis jer majlis tu terus gerak balik Kajang, tilamku telah lama menunggu...

- border gambor still suck, argh the hell with it. Janji siap -